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Patches

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I first saw Patches when she was only 3 weeks old.  Her mother stopped taking care of her kittens, so I took over when she was only five weeks old.  She was the most loving, trusting cat that I have ever known. 

Patches was my best friend for 19 years.  She could always tell when I was feeling blue.  She would curl up under my chin and purr.  She comforted me through my divorce and moves from home to home.

One night, when she was about five years old, I went to bed early, my husband was in the living room watching television, and as usual, Patches was curled up right next to me.   I began petting her and felt something wet.  I reached over and turned on the nightlamp.  All I could see was blood.  I screamed for my husband and he came running.  Just then, Patches wriggled around and I saw this tiny little sac.   Patches looked up at me and meowed as if to say "What do I do!".   But, she figured it out for herself.  She broke the sac and began to lick the little kitten inside.  It was too late for this first kitten, but as each subsequent one was born, Patches did her job and she ended up with two beautiful little girls and one handsome young boy. 

On my husband's 35th birthday, we planned a weekend getaway at a local hotel.  The week before, Patches began to weaken.  By Thursday, she had stopped drinking water and I knew that she would not be with me for very much longer.

I was reluctant to leave for the weekend, but we had non-refundable reservations for the weekend.  So, on Friday, after work, we packed up and drove to the hotel.   It was only fifteen miles from home, so I knew I could run back and forth to check on Patches.  After we checked into the hotel, my husband, Bob, sent me out to get some beverages.  He told me bring Patches back with me.  Bob knew how I felt about her. I went back home, found a small satchel,  placed her favorite blanket in it and put Patches, curled up in it. 

When I got back to the hotel, Bob had ordered a bottle of Dom Perignon (it was the only champagne name he knew) and strawberries with whipped cream.  He was trying to cheer me up. (and it was HIS birthday we were celebrating!)   That night, at about 10:30 pm, her breathing became labored.   We both knew it would not be long.  She meowed, looked up at me, and began to purr.  I held her in my arms as she took her last breath, petting and trying to comfort her as best I could.  My husband and I both cried like little babies.  I curled her up in her blanket, putting her in the position she always slept in, and covered her with her blanket.  Then, as I looked at my husband, we both began to laugh.   Here we were, in a hotel, celebrating his 35th birthday, and now, what do we do with this dead cat!.  It was storming outside, and I couldn't just leave her out in the car!  So, we just placed her in the corner, and we went to bed.  What a way to spend your birthday!  We took her home early the next morning, and buried her in our backyard. 

We returned to the hotel Saturday afternoon, to finish our weekend.  Bob told me how difficult it was for him to get the champagne.  He ordered it, and when the waiter brought it up to the room, Bob was going to just sign for it.  But the waiter said he would have to check with the front desk first.  After he checked, Bob signed the check, never bothering to look at it, and the waiter went on his way.  Well, when we checked out on Sunday, we both figured out why there was such a hassle!  That bottle of champagne cost us $350.00.  It was a weekend I will never forget.  I still have the bottle, too.  It sits right next to a picture of Patches on my dresser!

Patches is the only cat that I owned 
that had kittens.  
Here are pictures of her and her babies.

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